1. Come in clarity When you both know this is your truth — not out of pressure, not out of habit, but freely chosen — you come together. You do not need a church, a building, or an official. You can be anywhere — your home, your land, a quiet place that matters to you.

2. Speak your own declarations There are no required words. Speak what is true for you. These are not vows you promise to never change — they are promises you make from who you are now, with full respect for your journey ahead.

 

💡 Example of what this might look like — simply a guide, not a script:

Party One: "I choose you. I walk beside you. I honour your freedom as I honour my own. Wherever this journey leads, I meet it with you — in love, in truth, and in respect."

Party Two: "I receive your choice, and I give you mine. I am with you. I do not ask to own you — only to walk with you, to support your unfolding, and to love what is real in you."

3. Acknowledge Source as your only witness Speak this simply in your own way:

 

"Before Source, we make this choice. No third party stands between us. No document binds us but our word. What we align in integrity, Source holds in truth."

4. Record your names and the date Fill in the registry above. This is your record — for you, for your families, for your own knowing. It is not for a government office. It is a testament that your union exists in truth, not in paperwork.

🤍 Understanding What This Means

• No one "gives" anyone in marriage — you give yourselves to one another, equally.

• No authority validates this — your integrity and your free choice are the validation.

• If your paths change — you honour that truth too. Integrity means being honest when something is no longer right, as much as it means keeping your word when it is.

• Your union is held in the eternal — it does not depend on anyone else's signature or approval.